When David played I left him to it, we used to go out with my headache sometimes (wife-soon-be-rid-of-for-good), I'd barely watch him.
When he started going off on his own and I had ones close to me I sat down and learned what to do, based on free presses and all that. Mainly played the 1 in the Golf club. He never told me about that Fired Up thing, not even sure if I told him or he knew.
End of the day, he was trying to make contacts and I gave him some, dunno how much it helped him, can't say I was particularly bothered about not talking to them much anymore. All part of the game, he's done nothing wrong in my book. Just wish he'd talk like an adult sometimes.